Bedroom Tips for Couples

Sexy Tips to Spunk up your Sex life after 35

Do you miss those lovey-dovey moments when you both used to spend hours cuddling in each other’s arms doing nothing? Or those times when you used to experience orgasms galore at a single session only to make love once again in the middle of the night? With your kiddies, home chores and bills grabbing all of your time and energy, the only moments you get to spend with each other are those when you doze off in bed together.  With the age clock ticking fast and pushing you beyond 35, your hormones plummet and so does your sex drives. But did you know, sex after 35 can be equally or at times, even more passionate than what you have had experienced as newlyweds? With these sexy tips you sure can re-ignite and spunk up your sex life post 35.

Go Around Naked: When was the last time you slept naked? Probably not anytime in between since your honeymoon! Just because there has been a gap of a few years does not mean you should edge on sobriety and do things only under sheets. Well, it helps at times to proudly flaunt your skin in front of your better half even though it lacks the pre-baby tautness or the bloom of youth. Send your kids to their granny’s and just get to rub your bodies against each other as you take a shower together, play a nude, naughty game of chase or simply lie in spooning position for hours. Believe me, nude is sexy and it is sure to trigger off some intimate moments sometime soon.

Be Verbal, Make the First Move: You might often be pondering in solitude how he used to often pull you close or hold you suddenly from the back only to mesmerize you with his sensuous moves before getting down to the real job. Years down the line he may be more of a responsible husband, slogging the whole day and dropping off to sleep in an instant. Do not crib, for even if he does not take the initiative often now, it is perfectly alright for a woman to make the first move. Be bold in your approach and verbally guide him towards what satisfies you the most. At this stage of life he would be more turned on by seeing you satisfying yourself or guiding his hands to your erogenous zones than merely watching you undress. Be creative in your actions, let your wildest of fantasies fly high as you bring them within the closed doors or your bedroom or even the weirdest corners of the house that you can think of.

Have Sex Once a Week: Yes, the key to revving up your sex life is to have loads of sex. Even though you might be running the whole day cooking, sending your kids to school and accompanying them to their aerobic classes, it pays to pep your energies up for the night and get cozy with your hubby at least once a week. The more you make love, the closer you will feel with each other and the more sex you would desire. In fact, sex is an irresistible passion and once you include it in your “to-do list” bet you cannot do without it for more than a week.

With a little effort on your part sex can take up a bigger, better and more bewitching stature than what it was 10 years back. So go forth, make the most of all the experiences that you have had accumulated in bed and the closeness and trust that you have gained in each other for so many years and gear up for a steamy sex life post 35.

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